India Choquette is a writer, a trainer, a teacher, a breakfast sandwich eater, a person in love with a person, and a FOrmer Vermonter living in New York City.

Would you rather be a victim of a mass shooting or the perpetrator of a mass shooting?

…Are these the only options? Two different faces of fear?

Last night while I was making dinner, S. and I listened to the radio. When the shooting coverage came up, I wanted to skip it because it is too sad to listen to. S. stopped me and said, “We need to know what’s going on.”

She’s right.

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